Here are a few of Thomas' ideas:
1. Communicate to your assistant your extra security with this arrangement and ask her not to take it personally when you have to restrict your relationship—sometimes seeming cold or disinterested.
3. Be careful showing her a compassionate ear. Females are attracted more to a strong leader who is also sensitive than they are to big studly arms (like yours!).
7. Never be alone with her. Never give her a ride alone. Never be alone in an office where others cannot monitor at all times.
9. Never talk to her about her dating life except as it negatively affects her work for you. Never talk to her about any difficulties you have in marriage. Only reiterate your commitment to your wife.