What Would You Say If....

Tonight I spoke with a woman who told me she is seriously considering leaving her husband.  She identifies herself as a Christian and says her husband is not.  There is no physical abuse but from what I can tell there is some level of emotional abuse/ emotional abandonment.  They have been married over ten years and the husband is not interested in attending any counseling.

I will share my response in a later post but I am curious about what you would say if you were in my shoes?