C.S. Lewis on When Friends Let You Down
Thoughts from John Piper and C.S. Lewis about 'when a friend lets you down',
I think what one has to remember when people “hurt” one is that in 99 cases out of a 100 they intended to hurt very much less, or not at all, and are often quite unconscious of the whole thing. I’ve learned this from the cases in which I was the “hurter.” When I have been really wicked and angry and meant to be nasty, the other party never cared or even didn’t notice. On the other hand, when I have found out afterwards that I had deeply hurt someone, it has nearly always been quite unconscious on my part.
- C. S. Lewis, Letters to an American Lady, Grand Rapids, 1967, 57
Proverbs. 19:11, “Good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook an offense.”
And we should keep our eyes fixed on Jesus who was abandoned by all 11 of his apostles, and was denied by Peter. Then he built the church on them!