The Problem with Calvinists
The problem with Calvinists is that they go full steam into arguments with others over the sovereignty of God because they think God's glory is at stake. But arguing over this actually defeats the very belief that God is the one who sovereignly changes hearts and the will. By arguing, you prove you don't really believe the things you claim to believe.
- Joel Brooks, quoted in Young, Restless and Reformed (Collin Hansen), pg. 132